I don't think it's better or worse. They're just... two situations where you followed what you believed to be your path of happiness. And with her... however this ends up, you shouldn't deny yourself love like that.

[She spent too long doing that to herself. Even in this world, she'd spent so long denying her feelings for Cass because of the idea that she had to marry some nobleman back home eventually. It's one reason it took so long for her to gather her courage to talk to her now-girlfriend.]

Kristoff... he's a good man. With or without your relationship with him, I love him like a brother. He and I share the desire to see you happy, no matter what, so I think... [She lets out a slow breath. It's hard to speak for others...] I think he would just want you to follow your heart. It might hurt, but seeing you happy might be enough to make him happy.